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Inside/Outside Box

A powerful art-based play therapy technique

Clair Mellenthin, LCSW, RPT-S

In Play Therapy with older children (tweens) and teens, one of the important tenets is helping the child to establish a sense of self 鈥 Who am I? Who do I want to become? What are the innate things about me that are loveable and of value?

Too often, girls especially are targeted at a young age through media and savvy marketing to believe that 鈥淚 am not enough,鈥 鈥渕y body is not good enough, skinny enough, pretty enough.鈥 This crushes a young girl鈥檚 self-esteem and confidence, placing them in even a more vulnerable, emotionally charged way of existing.

A powerful art-based play therapy intervention called the Inside/Outside Box is focused on helping identify how a child sees themselves, as well as how they think other's perceive them. In this activity, the making of a collage is used as a powerful, symbolic representation of the self.

Supplies:

  • Shoebox (multiple sizes)
  • Glue
  • Scissors
  • Various magazines

Instructions:
The child can choose (or can bring into session) a shoe box with a lid. Instruct the client to cut out different words and/or pictures from magazines that represent how he/she believes others view him/her. Glue them into a collage on the outside of the box and lid.

Explore how other鈥檚 perceptions may or may not be true, what the client thinks about and feels while looking at their 鈥渙utside box鈥.

On the inside of the box, have the child repeat the process using different magazine pictures and/or words. However, on the inside of the box focus on how the child sees his/her true self and identity.

Ask the client to share what each symbol or word is, along with its personal symbolic meaning. Process any thoughts and feelings that may surface.

Suggested questions:

  • How does it feel to look at the outside of your box in comparison to the inside of the box?
  • What would you change about or add to the outside of your box, if anything?
  • What would you change about or add to the inside of your box, if anything?

Note, this may take several sessions to complete, and you may want to assign this intervention as 鈥渉omework鈥 for older children and teen clients.

The Inside/Outside Box is a wonderful tool that elicits powerful emotions and helps the tween and/or teen begin to see their whole self, creating a launching pad for blossoming self-esteem and self-worth.


Learn more strategies to help children express emotions with the new workbook, , by Clair Mellenthin, LCSW, RPT-S.



Topic: Children and Adolescent Behavioral | Play Therapy

Tags: Self-Compassion | Self-Esteem

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